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Grief and Mental Health

I Had a Hysterectomy at Age 39 even though It Was Scary

I had a hysterectomy at age 39 even though it was scary.

When I was 18 years old and about to start college, my mother almost died.

She became extremely anemic after experiencing months of increasingly heavy periods.

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Grief and Mental Health Alzheimer's Disease and Dementia Motherhood and Parenting

Dear Mom, You Weren’t Supposed to Leave Me So Soon

Dear Mom, You weren’t supposed to leave me so soon. I’ve had to do everything without you. You weren’t supposed to leave me so soon. I’ve had a miscarriage. I’ve had two babies. And I’ve had two surgeries. I’ve watched my brother fight addiction. I’ve watched my dad remarry. And I’ve planned funerals. I’ve written […]

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Grief and Mental Health

Why My Mother Never Got the Chance to Be an Amazing Grandmother

My mother never got the chance to be an amazing grandmother.

My mother wanted to take her grandchildren to the beach.

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Grief and Mental Health

I Will Never Be the Fun One but I Will Be Your Fiercest Friend

I will never be the fun one. You know that carefree friend you have who’s always smiling and always makes people laugh, even when she’s having a bad day? Wait, does she even have bad days? Yeah, those people are great. They probably get invited to a lot of parties, but they’re not me. Look, […]

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Faith Grief and Mental Health Motherhood and Parenting Texas

7 Powerful Songs that Will Comfort People in Their Grief and Loss

Creating a playlist of songs that will comfort people in their grief for my Where Did My Sweet Grandma Go? launch party really calmed my anxious heart. Music soothed my soul after losing my mother to early onset Alzheimer’s disease, and I enjoyed finding therapeutic, uplifting music that speaks of Heaven, God’s creation and eternal […]