I’m Grateful for My Baby Brother on His Birthday

My life changed forever, 36 years ago today, when my one and only sibling officially joined our family. At the time, I was quite disappointed that my baby brother was not a girl. I think my unimpressed look in the photo above says it all. I look a little happier in the next one:

Today, I am so grateful for my brother’s friendship and support, especially throughout our mother’s illness. His compassionate and patient spirit encourages and inspires me, and I cherish our shared memories of her.

Below is “Some Stars Shine,” the beautiful poem he wrote 10 years ago for the memorial services honoring our mother:

Some stars shine a little brighter
Like lightning in the afternoon
Our eyes squint a little tighter
In a flash they’re gone too soon
A thousand rooms stay glowing
While the summer rain is flowing

Memories of light, a spirit in the night
A mother and a child, delicate and wild

Encircled by the angels,
A woman of God is strong
Seeking the Truth in all its tangles
Always knowing right from wrong
She showers her neighbors with love
Her flaming heart is from above

Mother of books, knowledge in nooks
Queen of all words, singing with birds

A sweet country girl
But simple’s not the word
Southern beauty, see her twirl
Standing out among the herd
Her kindness is a wellspring
Her grace will make us all sing

Lover of the Lord, the Father will reward
And we will hold her hand, some day in the sand

Russell Stucky